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В чём разница между педагогом и психологом? – спросил нас пед-студентов, преподаватель психологии на одной из лекций. И продолжил: и педагог, и психолог, в тёмной комнате, с завязанными глазами ищут чёрную кошку. Но у психолога она есть, а у педагога её нет. И всё же некоторые коррекции даёт индивидуальный подход.           

Называть четырёхлетнего малыша оторвой наверное несерьёзно. Но, тем не менее, Санька был моей головной болью. Ещё он был головной болью нянечки, воспитателя, моего напарника по группе и заведующей детского сада. В помещении он дрался с детьми, ломал игрушки, забирался на подоконник. На улице – всё так же дрался с детьми, но лез уже в лужи и на забор и отрывал крылья божьим коровкам.                        

Папы у него не было, мама занималась собой. Кажется, по настоящему, любила и печалилась об этом сорванце только бабушка.

Что прикажете с таким чадом делать? Я не смогла придумать ничего, более лучшего, кроме как держать Саньку возле себя. На прогулку малыши ходили парами, Саня – в паре со мной. На игровом участке, мы сидели с ним на лавочке, держась за руки и Саня канючил: ну можно я пойду, поиграю. Я была непоколебима: нет, Саша, ты не умеешь  себя вести. Иногда я всё-таки отпускала его, под честное слово, но вскоре заметила: Сашу бьют трое самых сильных ребят из группы. И если бы по очереди! Нет, мальчишки нападали на него одновременно, и это было несправедливо. Я принялась увещевать малышей. Не помогло. Поговорила с родителями забияк и всё же смогла донести главную мысль: трое на одного – нечестно! Задиры оставили Сашу в покое.                     

Ангелом он, конечно, не стал. Какой там ангел! Неслух, неряшливый, лохматый, да ещё и с редкостным насморком. Под носом у него вечно красовались насохшие корки и болячки.В ближайший тихий час я подсела к нему на кровать и попросила: Саша, полежи спокойно, я тебе сейчас нос почищу и намажу лекарством. Я буду чистить осторожно, но ты, пожалуйста, не шевелись, чтобы я тебя нечаянно не уколола пинцетом. Он не пошевелился ни разу, и я сказала: молодец, а теперь я сделаю два жгутика и намажу тебе нос вазелином с девесилом. Вот этот жгутик для левой дырочки, а этот для правой. Всей группе было не до сна. И что там с Сашиным носом делают?          

Достаточно странно: единственной обработки хватило, нос стал здоровым сразу и насовсем. А на прогулки мы так и ходили, дети по парам и Саша в паре со мной. Надо ли говорить, что он постоянно дёргался и вырывался?

Приближалась середина лета, пора зелёных яблок. На одной из прогулок, я потрясла яблоню, росшую на нашем участке, дети подобрали яблоки. Все подняли по одному яблоку, Ваня – два, Саша – ни одного. Я распорядилась: Ваня отдай яблоко Саше и пойдёмте все на лавочку. Непедагогично, конечно, есть немытые зеленцы, но мы их вытерли. Дети уже доедали яблоки, когда я заметила, Саша – не ест.

Саша, а ты почему не ешь?                                                                      

Ваня забрал у меня яблоко.                                                                      

Я возмутилась: Ваня, отдай сейчас же!                                                    

А я уже оба съел.                                                                      

Ну что же, все съели по одному яблоку, а ты два, ты поступил бессовестно!                                                  

Я вытащила из кармана запасное яблоко и отдала Саньку.                       

Полчаса спустя мы засобирались с прогулки. Дети привычно построились парами, непарный ребёнок подошёл ко мне и сунул в руку ладошку. Я опустила глаза и обомлела: это был Санёк, который, всего полтора часа назад, вырывал свою руку из моей.                        

Истории этой без малого тридцать лет, но она изредка всплывает в памяти и на душе становится тепло. Удивительно, я почти не помню ни одного благополучного ребёнка, из моих воспитательных лет, а этот оторвишка всё помнится.                                                                      

На педагогическом поприще немало высоких наград и заслуженных поощрений, но есть ли награда выше, чем доверие ребёнка?..                                                                      

Ах, как хочется нам родителям,

Послушания от детей.

И взираем мы оком бдительным,

На безумие их затей.

Нам в затеи вникать? Уставшие,

Мы мечтаем скорей прилечь.

А мечтами детей, опавшими,

Можно попросту пренебречь.

В пресеченьи мы доки ушлые.

Ни сказать нам, ни доказать –

Если вырастут все послушными,

Кто же будет тогда дерзать?

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